Sunday, July 13, 2008

Is it Really that F'en Hard to say Sorry......

Right Now... I am very annoyed! My boyfriend or whatever he is, has a very difficult time apologizing, which really bothers me. Shoot, I felt as though he hung up on me. He claims he didn't but I could have swore he did. So instead of apologizing for the misunderstanding, he argues that he did not do it. It is not about if he did it or not, It simply addresses how he and I deal with conflict. 

I believe when it is an issue that whether you meant to do it or not, if the other person feels that way that you should do whatever to make sure that person understands that you did not mean it that way. Even if that means saying SORRY!!!

Damn, it is so difficult to solve issues with him because it is a constant argument. Never smooth sailing in order to let the issue bypass. Then he wonders why I do not get over stuff. I do not let it go at times because I know he does not even see the picture or the bigger issue. Misunderstandings happen all the time and I get that, however, I am upset about this one so be a good man and make it right. Its no need to bitch and moan about you not doing it.  

Saying Sorry Sometimes immediately without any bullshit excuse or explanation makes life so much more simple. 

♥ Empress Bee ♥ 

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